things i’ve learned about self-care

it's needed it's important it's essential to growth it comes in different forms it is different for each of us -as long as it's positive music makes me happy especially bob marley and lauryn hill journaling also makes me very happy and so does sipping wine self affirmations help increase your self esteem self care is … Continue reading things i’ve learned about self-care

How To Get Your Life When You Feel Lost

I'm been away from my blogging safe haven for a while and during that time I had a breakdown, an epiphany, felt lost and confused .. and ultimately got back up and began to re-find myself.

Daily Reminder #2

"It WILL get worse before it gets better and when better comes it's gonna feel so damn good".Keep up with me: Instagram/Facebook/Etsy/De La Jipi Instagram

Daily Reminder #1

I must be dragged through mud before I see my flower bloom. I got this 👌🏾 So I'm starting this little thing, lol. I don't know what to call it yet. But in light of all the negativity that has been surrounding us lately, I think it's important to constantly surround ourselves with positive words, … Continue reading Daily Reminder #1

Along My Spiritual Journey: The Beginning

A few months before my 21st birthday I think I had an epiphany. I kind of fell ... into myself. Let me explain. I have always felt like the odd one out. Externally, I was happy and just like everyone else. Internally, I knew I was different. I pretended to enjoy the same things that … Continue reading Along My Spiritual Journey: The Beginning

Outfit Diaries| July 4th Weekend

Shirt| H&M Shorts| American Eagle Arm Candy| Anne Klein, DeLaJipi Sandals| Target Bag| Forever21 Keep up with me: Instagram/Facebook/Etsy/De La Jipi Instagram

Dear Black Women …

There's this thing women do ... specifically black women. I hate it. We live in a world where the black woman is constantly mistreated. We are unheard. Abused. Considered the low of the low. And when we speak out about the injustices that we face, we are deemed angry, aggressive, unruly and (my favorite) ghetto/ratchet … Continue reading Dear Black Women …

Then There Was Puerto Rico …

It's been exactly a week since I got back from my two week vacation. The second (and sadly) last stop on my trip was San Juan, Puerto Rico. Let me just start by saying that Puerto Rico was BEAUTIFUL. Anyways, my friends and I headed out Thursday afternoon (a day before Frenchies birthday). The ride … Continue reading Then There Was Puerto Rico …

Start Your Morning The Right Way | 4 Positive Things To Tell Yourself On ‘Those’ Days

Some days we wake up and we know that "TODAY IS GOING TO BE A GOOD DAY"! We get out of bed energized, full of hope and ready to take on the world. Then there are those days. You know, the days that you wake up, look outside your window and wonder "Why the HELL … Continue reading Start Your Morning The Right Way | 4 Positive Things To Tell Yourself On ‘Those’ Days

Before You Love Them | Love Yourself

Love is a feeling - truth. You can experience love by simply loving yourself - truth. You can also experience love by loving someone else - truth. Some people feel unfulfilled unless they find love from a significant other or family member or friend - truth. However, the truth is also that we don't need … Continue reading Before You Love Them | Love Yourself