I’m been away from my blogging safe haven for a while and during that time I had a breakdown, an epiphany, felt lost and confused .. and ultimately got back up and began to re-find myself.
A few months before my 21st birthday I think I had an epiphany. I kind of fell … into myself. Let me explain. I have always felt like the odd one out. Externally, I was happy and just like everyone else. Internally, I knew I was different. I pretended to enjoy the same things that […]
and I bet on myself. For a while, I distanced myself from others, sat back and contemplated some things that I have really always thought of doing but couldn’t find the courage to do. For months and months, I retreated to this little shell writing down ideas on top of ideas that my mind was […]
Nor is it a competition. Honestly, I’m going to keep this post short but I do want to get a message across. Many times in my life, I found myself comparing my success (and lack there of) to the success of others. “Well, if she can do that then why can’t I?” “He passed that […]
Welp, I’ve been M.I.A from my blogging world for a little while now. And I don’t want to make excuses but it’s because of stress! It’s only getting worse too … because Finals Week is around the corner, which means studying, which means more stress and I’m graduating which adds extra stress and preparing for […]
In the past, there has been so many times that I have let my fear of being judged and/or my fear of failing stop me from doing things that had the potential to make me happy. I missed out on so many tremendous opportunities because of this. And in turn, it only made me feel […]
This may not be true for all of you, but I know that sometimes I would become EXTREMELY stressed because I was constantly thinking about what everyone else wanted. Everyone’s hopes, dreams, aspirations and (most importantly) expectations fell onto me. That’s a huge burden to deal with ! I started doing things (not because I […]